Dildos are a great way to spice up your love life. They can provide an extra avenue for pleasure and heighten any average experience by doubling the orgasmic sensation. Following through with the same old routine in the bedroom can give you a dull sexual experience. This is where dildos for men show their worth. The best dildos for men will heighten masturbation and sex for all parties involved. Whether you are heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual – it does not matter. Dildos are an excellent playing tool for everyone.
There are plenty of heterosexual men who are open-minded sexually and willing to try new things such as male dildos. For example, getting girlfriends to use pegging dildos on men has become a very popular sexual trend lately. As a matter of fact, it has gained recent popularity, especially among straight men. It has no correlation with your sexual orientation. It is perfectly normal to want to experiment with your lover and you are absolutely encouraged to do so, no matter your sexual orientation. Don’t get me wrong, though – gay and bisexual men are obviously also in the target demographic for dildos. Dildos are an excellent way to spice up gay- or bisexual sex, and they will remain so for a long time to come.
Dildos should be commonplace in the sex tool arsenal of all men, and that is why this list of the best male dildos was put together. Without further ado, let’s review the top choices currently available.
The Best Dildos for Men
1. Tantus Charmer P-Spot Dildo – Best Overall Dildo for Men
Price: $42.99 on Lovehoney
Material: Silicone
Insertable length: 6.5 inches
With long consideration, I decided to give the title of the best dildo for men to the Tantus Charmer. The Charmer is a dildo fully made from silicone, which is super impressive for its cheap price. Having bought tons of silicone dildos for men, I can make some comparisons, and I have to say… the Tantus Charmer is absolutely fantastic compared to the vast majority of options out there. While it does not look particularly realistic, it makes up for that fact in its performance and effective design. And, most importantly, in its super cheap price tag. Forty bucks for a high-quality silicone dildo really is a steal.
The design is slim, and the four nodules on the body of the dildo feel absolutely fantastic. The slimness makes this dildo for men very easy to insert into the anus, and the nodules work their magic once you are moving the Charmer in and out of your body. Imagine being stroked by four soft fingers in multiple sections of your anus – that’s what the effect feels like for me. I have to say – I’m highly impressed with this male dildo. And, that is why I ranked the Tantus Charmer as the absolute best dildo for men. It’s relatively cheap, and it’s a superb choice overall.
2. VixSkin Buck – Best High-End Male Dildo
Price: $129.99 on Betty’s Toy Box
Material: Silicone
Insertable length: 6 inches
First discovered by my colleague Emily in her article on suction cup dildos, the VixSkin dildo is a truly premium piece of silicone. Unlike the #1 pick, the Tantus Charmer, this male dildo feels highly realistic, and once you have it inserted, there really is no difference in sexual feeling between it and a real penis. It feels stunningly similar to a real cock in every way imaginable.
The high-quality silicone material, the veiny texture, the stretchy skin, the color… everything about this male dildo screams “REAL”! While a size of 6 inches makes this a fairly small dildo for men, it’s still an excellent choice for most of you who are looking for the best experience possible out of your dildo. If you take the price out of the equation, I would easily rate it higher than the Tantus Charmer, as the best overall dildo for men. As it does cost a premium, though, I decided to give the number one spot to the Tantus. For the price reason alone, the Charmer will be a better suit for most of you. If you are willing to pay a premium for your male dildo, though, then the VixSkin should be your #1 pick.
3. Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies – Best Beginner Dildo for Men
Price: $12.99 on Lovehoney
Material: PVC
Insertable length: 4.75 inches
With its tiny length and slim body, the Crystal Jellies male dildo is an excellent choice for absolute beginners. If you have never experienced any kind of prostate play or anal play, then it’s always wise to start off small and work your way up in size slowly. This is where small dildos such as the Crystal Jellies come into play.
The small design makes this dildo for men very easily insertable. Even those of you who have never stuck as much as a finger into your bum will find it rather easy to use, especially with lube. Together with its super cheap price tag, I can easily recommend the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies as the best male dildo for beginners into anal play. It’s affordable, it’s effective, and it’s unintimidating.
4. Fuze Velvet Dildo for Men
Price: $59 on Stockroom
Material: Silicone
Insertable length: 5.75 inches
The Velvet Dildo by Fuze is a sensual ergonomic designed gay men dildo which has a lifelike texture that is sure to bring you anal ecstasy for hours on end. What makes this dildo special is that it is compatible with harnesses for strap-on fun that make it the ideal dildo for pegging.
The size of this dildo is a very comfortable 5.75 inches, making it perfect for beginners. The circumference is approximately one inch in diameter and is designed for optimum comfort and feel. Not only is this versatile enough for couples but it also has a staged base that helps with clitoral stimulation when knocking on the back door.
This dildo is carefully crafted to fit into a harness with its perfectly proportioned weight and balance that keeps the dildo aimed precisely where you want it. The Velvet Dildo also has a cavity in the base that allows you to insert a bullet. Inserting the bullet will add a vibrator function and an even greater experience sexually. If you are on the market for a vibrating dildo for men, then you might want to consider going this route instead. Just choose a vibrating bullet which you like, and you have yourself a unique male dildo!
The last thing I want to mention is the material. Just like the previous two choices, the texture of this male dildo is made up of medical grade platinum cured silicone base and is safe to use with all kinds of water based lubes. Silicone dildos really are the best!
5. King Cock
Price: $44.99 on Lovehoney
Material: PVC
Insertable length: 8.5 inches
The King Cock is an excellent choice for all you power-freaks out there – it’s girthy, it’s lengthy, and it will rock your bottom for an affordable price. The design of the King Cock feels highly realistic, and the suction cup on the bottom is super strong for a male dildo in this price range.
The King Cock is another non-silicone dildo I chose to feature on this list. While generally, I tend to prefer dildos made from silicone, there are some exceptions – and the King Cock is one of them. It’s made from PVC, but it still manages to feel super realistic and enjoyable. I can recommend it as one of the best dildos for those men who want something bigger than the top four best picks, but who don’t want to spend a premium just yet.
6. Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Dildo for Men
Price: $49.99 on Lovehoney
Material: PVC
Insertable length: 9 inches
9 inches, that’s right.
This beast of a male dildo is intended for only the most experienced men out there. It’s girthy and it’s long, but for the power-freaks out there, these are two huge motivators. If you want a colossal dildo capable of filling you up until the very end, then the Lifelike Lover should be on your list of top picks.
Besides its size, this dildo feels highly lifelike, especially considering the fact that it’s made from PVC and not silicone. I can’t say that it feels as real as something like the VixSkin Buck, featured at #1, but it’s up there. If you take into consideration the price, however, the Lifelike Lover becomes a much more attractive choice.
I can recommend the LifeLike Lover as one of the best male dildos for those men who want a big toy, but who want to stay in the mid-range price range. It’s not the absolute best dildo out there, but for the price, it offers excellent bang for the buck.
7. Adam Champ Uncut Dildo for Men
Price: $69.99 on Lovehoney
Material: PVC
Insertable length: 6.25 inches
Modeled after the pornstar Adam Champ, this uncut dildo is one of the most realistic uncut male dildos out there. If you prefer uncut penises or you just want to find out what they feel like compared to their cut counterparts, then this is the dildo for you. At a size of 6.25 inches, it’s fairly small, and it’s appropriate for beginners to anal play.
Overall, I really enjoyed this male dildo, but the only aspect I can complain about is the material. While PVC dildos can feel great, they don’t tend to be as durable or lifelike as their silicone counterparts. Most of the time, people purchase PVC male dildos for their cheap price, but in the case of Adam Champ, it’s fairly expensive. Even more so than some of the silicone dildos for men on this list. Therefore, if you are already looking at dildos in the $70+ price range, I suggest you go with silicone. That is the main reason why Adam Champ (and Adam Dexter, coming up next) did not place higher on this list of the best dildos for men.
8. Adam Dexter
Price: $89.99 on Betty’s Toy Box
Material: PVC
Insertable length: 8.5 inches
With a stunning appearance and a design full of veins and juicy details, the Adam Dexter dildo for men is a real looker. It has a strong suction cup and a rather huge size, so if you are in the market for something to destroy your butthole with, then Adam Dexter is the male dildo for you. Honestly, the dildo was even a bit too large for me – I have not trained enough to fit such beasts inside of me!
If you are confident that you can handle the whopping 8.5 inches of black mass inside of you, then go ahead and buy the Adam Dexter. It will fill you up like crazy. For beginners, however, I believe there are far better choices out there. And, just like the Adam Champ, this dildo is also made from PVC, which is not exactly ideal. The primary advantage of this beast is, of course, the size. If you like black dildos, then read Emily’s article – she has some more recommendations for you. It was written primarily for women, but I have found that her articles on dildos are highly helpful even for men.
BONUS: 2 Best Alternatives to Dildos for Men
As an extra, I decided to showcase two sex toys which are not exactly dildos, but which I loved regardless. Just like regular dildos, they are excellent for anal play, so if you are in the market for some fun, then check them out as well.
1. Fun Factory Bendy Anal Beads
Price: $34.99 on Lovehoney
Material: Silicone
Insertable length: 7 inches
The Fun Factory Bendy Beads are anal beads and they will make a great addition to the bedroom which provides versatile pleasurability together with a fun and sexy design. It has an ergonomic design that allows for excellent grip when you need it the most. The grip is excellent if you are going solo or even better if you are enjoying in the midst of company.
The adjustable shape allows for maximum pleasure for the recipient and loads of fun for the other partner. You can bend the shaft of the Bendy Bead for a curved effect that helps to activate the pleasure sensors of the prostate. For those of you who are looking for more out of their sex toy Fun Factory really did a stellar job incorporating lots of features for both beginners and veteran anal explorers alike.
A really cool feature of the Fun Factory Bendy Beads dildo is the multipurpose design that makes it the ideal dildo for gay men. This unique and fun male dildo doubles as both a set of anal beads and a dildo with bendability. It has a maximum girth of over one inch and a length of over ten inches!
That’s ten whole inches of unsurpassed prostate pleasure! The graduated multi size beads give you options on depth and girth as you playfully explore your back door region, making it the best gay dildo out there.
Having adult toys that are dishwasher safe is also a significant feature. It prevents the spread of diseases and bacteria that can have negative and unwanted effects. This toy is meant to be cleaned in boiling water or on the top rack of the dishwasher for best sanitation results. The Bendy Beads is also hypoallergenic, so it is safe for use for all skin types.
2. Lovehoney Booty Buddy Vibrating Butt Plug
Price: $26.99 on Lovehoney
Material: Silicone
Insertable length: 4.5 inches
The Lovehoney Booty Buddy Vibrating Butt Plug is a device meant to give you anal pleasure in settings you never thought were possible before, such as your shower. It is for those who were at first shy to try it because it is specially made to enhance your anal senses in an orgasmic way.
For instance, it comes with seven vibration functions that will make you easily slip it up your anal cavity. More specifically, it has two speeds as well as five patterns for you to choose from, which is not only pleasurable for men but also women!
The device is completely waterproof, so cleaning it will take no time at all. If you don’t like the vibration functions, then you can opt out to take the vibrating bullet out.
A unique quality about the Lovehoney Booty Buddy Vibrating Butt Plug is that it comes with an end that is dimple-shaped, which hits nerves that optimize your pleasure.
Final Thoughts
When looking for a little help in the bedroom finding an anal dildo for men is in no short supply. There are many different kinks and fetishes, and there are many other toys that accompany them. You can choose many different paths when exploring your sexuality, so it is important that you do not get too far out of your comfort zone too quickly.
Using a dildo may seem like an extreme addition to your bag of sexual tricks by many, especially the hetero crowd. Remember that although it may be intimidating or uncomfortable that it is completely natural to explore your body and your sexuality.
Do not let pride get in the way of your best orgasm. You could easily enhance your sexual experiences with your loved one by using dildos for guys especially if you want to try anal pleasure. Using a dildo is a great way to be sexy and fun even if it is just you. Tap into your sensual and erotic side and give a gay anal dildo a try!
Pleasuring the Prostate With a Dildo
Many forms of pleasure, unfortunately, go unobserved due to ignorance or social stigmas. One of the most underrated pleasure points for men is undoubtedly the prostate. Prostate massages can even cause ejaculation in males and are one of the biggest orgasms a man will ever experience.
When incorporating butt play into your sexual escapades, you will double the pleasure you are accustomed to experiencing. If you are in the mood for something freaky and new, then try massaging your prostate while engaging in sex or masturbation to enhance the sensation.
There are many benefits to prostate pleasure and stimulation. Probably one of the most embarrassing conditions of the male sex drive is erectile dysfunction. It has been reported that massaging the prostate can help improve erectile functions in male participants.
One of the results of engaging the prostate is that it helps to clear out the prostatic duct. This pipeline runs between your prostate and the rest of the male reproductive and urinary system. Massaging the prostate can produce a secretion of fluid that can help clear out the ducts and reduce symptoms of erectile dysfunction and painful ejaculation.
It’s basic anatomy. Butt pleasures are both erotic and beneficial to one’s overall health and libido. Not only does it feel great to receive but also to give pleasure via dildo to your sexual partner. It provides an erotic aesthetic that can turn up the heat in the bedroom.
